Jon +/- Kate

Go Team Jon!

There are so many points that bothered me about the show and about Kate tonight. I'll just say a few of them now.

Kate said Jon used to like the fans and now it’s like he has changed. I think this is true. When you life is "your business", as he so truthfully and realistically put it, then you no longer have the freedoms that your life once had when being recognized from time to time was nice. Now Kate is the one seeking the public's eye. I have been hearing people say they feel she is exploiting the children before all this controversy began. I think she saw it as an opportunity to make money off her family and situation and she took it. I do believe she did make the decision for her family because she saw that more money would give the kids better lives.

However, none of the decisions made by Kate is justification for Jon to be unfaithful to the marriage. But, we don't know exactly what went on between them when the cameras aren't on them. As I remembered it, all Kate said is that Jon made a mistake, and Jon said he did not cheat on Kate.
I don't think that he is going to show emotion for Kate at all because he is angry at her and Kate is playing the victim. I think he is showing a lot of resentment towards her. When Kate was at home with the kids, he was at work, at a real job, not a celebrity pampered book and talk show tour, and when he got off work, he was right there with her at home with the kids sharing the responsibility. Now, he was forced to quit his job, which for a man to have the feeling of supporting his family is very important to him and what makes him feel like a man, to stay home every day with the kids while she is traveling all over, without him or the kids.

Jon loves being with his kids, but once again Kate has striped him of his manhood.

I recommend to Kate to pick up the book, "For Women Only" by Shaunti Feldhahn and read it. After all, she is in those bookstores often.